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I’m the kind of person who, if you tell me I shouldn’t be able to do something, I’m gonna try to do it anyways.
I was raised in a liberal household in Los Angeles and came of age in the era of Britney Spears and Christina Aguilera.
Most HI-negative heterosexual men are extremely uneducated about what it really means to be HIV positive these days. I have to go through an education process with every single guy, and I’ve developed an arsenal of links to articles to send out the day after a good first date.
It’s exhausting to constantly have to convince people that I am not at all contagious, I am not going to die young, and I can have a normal life and have babies if I want to.
I’ve probably been on dates and disclosed my status to over 100 people in the last five years (#noshame).
I disclose face to face with 95 percent of my suitors and I’ve had a wide variety of responses; good, bad, and strange.
I was 24 years old after my break up and I wasn’t even close to my sexual peak yet, and nothing was going to stop me from feeling like a sexy pop princess.
I took my personal responsibility and tried to make the relationship work for a while.I’ve done massive work to build my self-esteem in the face of so much rejection.I take time for self-care, and I found a great therapist to use as a sounding wall.I’ve found some really cool people both from real life and on Tinder, and I’ve attempted to find a heterosexual man who’s also HIV-positive on and through Facebook.I’ve met some really great guys this way, but it turns out the dating pool for HIV-positive men who are interested in women is spread thin and wide. I even dated a girl for a little bit, and although I’m more attracted to men, I’m not ruling that out for my future. I’ve had relationships where HIV wasn’t a huge deal at all, and others where it was the major reason for break up.